(from the book Tender Warrior - "God's intention for a Man" by Stu Weber)
Men must develop a thorough, biblical, manly love. In a word - headship.
It is leadership with an emphasis upon responsibility, duty and sacrifice. Not rank or domination. The key to leadership is serving - "not lording it over." (ouch!)
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"It is painful, being a man, to have to assert the privilege, or the burden, which Christianity lays upon my own sex, I am crushingly aware of how inadequate most of us are, on our actual and historical individualities, to fill the place prepared for us."
- C.S. Lewis